Tuesday, 12 April 2016

Re: [HM:258401] Who Will You Chose to be - Drive 1 or Driver 2?

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On Tue, Apr 12, 2016 at 10:48 AM, Junaid Tahir <mjunaidtahir@gmail.com> wrote:

Driver 1 drives the Corolla. He paid it off already, has a 2 bedroom house paid for, makes 300K per year and has no debt/credit to pay, saves handsome amount and sleeps happily.

Driver 2 drives the Merc Benz. He has 3 Years left to pay it off, has a 4 bedroom house with hundreds of thousands left to pay, makes 200K per anum and has poor credit, lot of debt to pay, sleeps with a lot of stress each night 

Sadly many people would choose to be driver 2 because of what it looks like in spite of the reality that driver 1 is more wealthy. Amazon founder Jeff Bezos is a good example of driver 1. Your circumstances will never change until the way you think changes.

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[HM:258400] Time to Delete These Apps from Your Phone

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There are millions of apps available for download just for iOS alone. All of them are supposed to make your life easier, more convenient, more fun – but do they really? Or, at least, do we really need all the apps that an average modern person has installed? Here are some telltale signs that may give an insight on how you can declutter your phone and, by extension, your life.


1. Check How Much Energy and Space It Uses

Even the most inconspicuous apps sometimes turn out to be eating up your phone's battery and free space like crazy. If you feel that their usefulness doesn't justify these excesses, feel free to remove them immediately. iPhones don't boast holding a charge for a long time as they are, and every app that drains energy forces you to recharge them more and more often.

2. You Haven't Used This App in a Month

If you haven't opened the app in question a single time within a month, chances are you won't do it ever again. And even if you will, this fact shows that you can just as well do without it. If you want to see the list of essential apps that can actually improve your life without eating up your time and money, you may find it at this website – it will save you quite a lot of time and effort you'd otherwise waste scoring the AppStore for useful apps.

  

3. It Is More Fuss than It Is Worth

By definition, apps are supposed to make our life more convenient, save our time, make certain tasks easier and in general increase our efficiency. However, quite often what we get as a result is quite different from what is advertised. Many apps tend to use up more of our time and effort than they save, which is especially funny in case of time-tracking and efficiency apps that are supposed to force us use time more responsibly. If you feel that an app demands too much of your attention without providing visible returns for it, it may be better to get rid of it.

4. Apps That Waste Your Time

There are apps that waste your time inadvertently, due to poor design or your own addiction to efficiency tracking. And there are apps that are created for the specific purpose of wasting your time, distracting you and turning using them on a regular basis into habits. All these little games, puzzles, social media apps and suchlike don't do you any good – they just leech out your time and attention, not to mention battery charge and free space.

5. Apps That Duplicate Each Other

Sometimes you download a whole lot of similar apps to see which one you will like best, but then cannot settle upon any one of them. As a result, you have a number of apps you either don't use at all or use sparingly, sitting uselessly on your phone. So look closely at all the apps you have installed and check if some of them have the same features, or are used for similar purposes. If you find those, decide here and now which ones you are going to use and which ones go to the dustbin.

Deciding whether you need an app or don't may be tricky – sometimes an app should sit on your phone for quite a while for you to understand whether you are going to use it or not. But when it comes to decluttering your phone and your life, less is usually better than more – so if you are not sure, better delete the app in question and be through with it.

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Monday, 11 April 2016

[HM:258399] Who Will You Chose to be - Drive 1 or Driver 2?

Driver 1 drives the Corolla. He paid it off already, has a 2 bedroom house paid for, makes 300K per year and has no debt/credit to pay, saves handsome amount and sleeps happily.

Driver 2 drives the Merc Benz. He has 3 Years left to pay it off, has a 4 bedroom house with hundreds of thousands left to pay, makes 200K per anum and has poor credit, lot of debt to pay, sleeps with a lot of stress each night 

Sadly many people would choose to be driver 2 because of what it looks like in spite of the reality that driver 1 is more wealthy. Amazon founder Jeff Bezos is a good example of driver 1. Your circumstances will never change until the way you think changes.

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[HM:258398] Convincing Your Boss to Make You a Manager

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Are you, or is someone you know, an individual contributor who wants to move into a management role, either with your current organization or a new one? But, how can you sell yourself as a manager when you've never actually been one?

Begin the Leadership Journey Here

The basic fact is that every manager originally lacked professional management experience; and yet, of course, many people end up as managers. The chasm between individual contributor and manager can be crossed, but only if you can effectively demonstrate and describe your management skills.

So how do you begin making the transition?

First, ask yourself whether you really want to move up. A certain proportion of the people who do their jobs well eventually get promoted into management, but some actually find that they miss their individual contributor roles and dislike managing other people. A management title or salary can be appealing, but in the long run, management may not be the professional role that you really want. If you're convinced that it is what you want, or that you at least want to try it, then get to work convincing other people that you're ready for it.

9 Tips to Make Effective Decisions

Then find out what's needed to achieve a management position in your organization and strive to resemble that management candidate. Start by showing management capability with the tasks you're already doing as an individual contributor. Consider Eric, a young man who has been very successful in a tech company he recently joined. He quickly decided that he needed to create a dialogue with upper management to assure that he could work his way up to a management position as promptly as possible. He asked:

  • What are the requirements needed to advance?
  • What are the skills that I'll need to demonstrate?
  • How can I best demonstrate them?
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By asking these questions, he was viewed as a serious contender for a higher role and learned what was most valued in his company. He realized that part of his efforts would hinge around how well he managed himself. He would need to be proactive about setting his own agenda, so the people managing him wouldn't have to. He found that his boss could then become the person who approved, rather than directed, a number of his initiatives.

Eric showed that he was taking the bigger picture into consideration in how he approached his work. He treated each assignment as if he was the project manager, showing that he could "own the project". He over-communicated with his colleagues and his boss. By taking a proactive approach, he would not be seen as a passive participant, but as someone who could make things happen.

By actively showing what he could do, Eric was swiftly promoted to a management position that has developed and grown, much to his satisfaction and that of his company. He did this by making sure that the powers-that-be observed his efforts and were fully aware that he was ready to advance.

So what, exactly, should you say to your manager and when should you say it? Put in an early request for those watching you to be aware of your ambition so they can see it enacted. You can say things like:

  • "I'm ready to move ahead in the organization" or "I will be ready soon."
  • "I'm enjoying what I do and I look forward to taking on more."
  • "I'd like to be a candidate for the manager position that's coming up."
  • "I've only been here for two years, but I've learned a lot and I want to keep learning and growing."

Notice that each of the sentences above takes an upbeat and confident approach to staking your claim. Readiness, a positive lookout, self-knowledge and willingness to learn are the main themes. These kinds of pronouncements don't guarantee that you'll gain traction on your goals, but it can make their achievement far more likely than if you don't speak up. Your current manager — or a potential hiring manager — is busy; you want them to be alerted to your professional abilities and desires.

How else can you boost your case for becoming a manager? You can procure and share endorsements: "Jane and Joe will tell you that I organized a way for us to attack the Jones account and that it worked well for us all." You can discuss your eagerness to help solve problems: "I'm glad that I was able to find a new way for us to handle the volume of online queries," or "I'd like to help the group brainstorm about making the upcoming event really productive." These messages focus on taking the lead, helping others, and solving problems for the organization.

New Manager's Fundamentals – Some Critical Points

There will no doubt be other extenuating circumstances that factor into your chances of moving into a management role. If there's currently someone in the position that you'd like, and he or she is not moving any time soon, you can acknowledge that reality, express your interest in moving up some day and, meanwhile, enrich your current job so that you're in training for a larger role when the time comes.

If your boss or mentor is someone who has strong beliefs about employees needing a long tenure in an entry level role, or a particular academic or training credential that you don't have, acknowledge it; for example: "I know that you value a longer stay at my level, but because of the current expansion of the business, I've been able to jump into a lot more projects more quickly than I would have otherwise." And, of course, you can often move up the ranks more quickly by looking outside of your current organization.

My Boss is Taking Credit for my Work

As you contemplate the management role you'd like to obtain, review your own experiences in managing a goal, a group, or a process and the insights and skills the experience has given you. Lay out very clearly what you have learned about managing, inside or outside of a professional setting. State the additional management skills that you look forward to learning, and your plan to learn them. Make the pitch, and demonstrate that you are the upcoming management talent that the organization needs.


Anna Ranieri, MBA, PhD is an executive coach, career counselor and speaker - Source HBR


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Sunday, 10 April 2016

[HM:258397] 5 Things Interviewers Should & Should Not Do

The following is an extract from various discussions and experiences of professionals from both side of the table, the interviewees and the interviewers
    

Seeking good opportunities is something we all do. Sometimes we do it for career enhancement, other times there are financial motivations. There are no boundaries attached to career hunting. We see a lot of people seek opportunities abroad while doing perfectly okay at their native job. This is a cycle which runs throughout the year. The organizations refer to it as turnaround; which means that they understand the phenomena.

Sometimes companies make it their prime objective to retain employees at any cost. Other times, the procedure is to hire resources when the need arises, and keep the turnaround in progress. This way companies can have fresh resources and control costs, a very common practice in Pakistan IT industry. In any case, this whole process relies on one critical activity, the interviews.

Interviews: They're Also About The People Who Conduct Them

If we search around the internet, we would find a lot of material on how to create CV and how to be presentable in interviews, etc. On the contrary, we may not find much on how to conduct an effective interview. In Pakistan, the weight of this context slides towards the interviewee and not the interviewers.

In my experience and several discussions with professionals across networks, we have come to the conclusion that just like candidates prepare for the interviews, the interviewers should also prepare themselves but evidently this is not the case in Pakistan.

Here are five pointers which I believe interviewers should and should not do while conducting an interview:

1. Please Come Prepared

Just like interview candidates are weighed down regarding interview preparations, we are somehow falling short of putting up guidelines for the interviewers. Many times it is noted that the interviewers are not prepared as they should be.

Mostly it is clear that the interviewer has looked at the CV for the first time, even if the interview call was made a week before. In other cases, it is apparent that the interviewer does not belong to the same career line as the interviewee is and hence, the unwanted gap results in unrelated questions and often times tense arguments too, which eventually results in a deadlock for hiring process.

Smart interviewers prepare themselves before conducting critical interviews. They make themselves aware of the CV in their hands and create a perception of the candidate, so that they can create good communications lines. They also note critical questions and gaps within the career path of a candidate.

Often, the HR department helps out an interviewer in regards to questions they should ask, and also provide pre-printed data forms to assist as tools during detailed interviews. But the critical career oriented and technical line of questions is dependent on the interviewer and how he / she ask them. So it is easier said than done.

2. Put Up Milestones

A good interviewer (unless required so) does not start off right away. He preps the interviewee for upcoming questions. The candidates as we all know are usually nervous within the first few minutes of the interview and here, a good interviewer can put the candidate in a comfortable position first.

The best way to do that is to have introductions, casual talk regarding some current affairs, or asking about hobbies and family. Ask if the interviewee wishes to have some tea, coffee or water. This eases the tensions and facilitates that normal breathing process.

An interviewer can then put up milestones, which is sort of a guided tour to what they are going to ask and how the interview is structured. This way the candidate knows what's coming up next and prepare accordingly, while the interviewer can get the best answers and can analyze the potential of the candidate.

3. Don't Be Judgmental

Everyone has their own personal lives, success, failures, financial, career and education qualifications. While going through a CV, it is almost very easy to acquaint yourself with the candidate's professional and sometimes personal life. It is at this point that pre-judgment and speculations can cloud the mind of an interviewer and the questions can cross the boundary of being professional to personal.

What you really need to do is to prepare a line of questions that can reveal those gaps in the CV. The smartest question to counter judgmental behavior is to ask the candidate to tell what is not in the CV. What you are really good at.

Mostly these areas are about Job tenures, take home salaries, and the reasons to leave the previous job.

4. Hire Characters As You Can Always Train The Skills

Each business has a different set of standard processes and technical tools on which it operates. Mostly these tools and practices are based on some international standard or certified products. At the time of the job posting, the ads usually mention this clearly. In case of technology jobs, the tools and development languages really matter. Other times, degree and qualification play their roles.

With this sort of competitive market, a hiring company can have a number of potential candidates with the same set of technical skills. This makes the selection process jump back to square one.

Here the real challenge is to identify the right character and human based skills. Good interviewers, besides analyzing the technical side, also evaluate the candidate on these skills. Some of them even weighs these skills more than the technical ones. The reason is simple: you can train them for technical aspects but you cannot untrain them from their bad habits.

5. Know Why You Are Doing It

The interview process is not something which is done in a matter of minutes or hours; it usually takes days to complete the whole process, which starts right from the job posting to the very call made by the HR department regarding an appointment.

During the time when the candidate is giving the interview, they are often put to second opinions by the interviewer. This usually happens because the primary interviewer feels that the candidate is pulling short on some specific facts or skills – or – it happens when interviewer realized that the candidate is not suitable for the given job, but is ideal for another opening in the company.

In either case, the interviewer should be prepared to handle the candidate appropriately because sometimes, it become frustrating for the interviewee to be shifted from one seat to another and reply to redundant questions.

Concluding Thoughts

Human resource selection is a critical process for an organization. Any slightest glitch in the matter can result in hiring of a wrong resource for a job which can cost millions to the company.

The HR department's work is not a piece of cake. Their organized behavior, data management, and people networking skills are the key elements for selecting the right brand of human capital.

On the other hand, they rely on senior experts on the matter of decisions regarding hiring and firing. Here, professionals who conduct interview must show responsibility and self-management, because what their words say on the remarks section, will be considered final, and that can make a lot of difference in a job seeker's life.

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Friday, 8 April 2016

[HM:258396] Story: The Twist In Murder Story


This is an unbelievable twist of fate!!!
At the 1994 annual awards dinner given for Forensic Science, (AAFS) President Dr. Don Harper Mills astounded his audience with the legal complications of a bizarre death.

Here is the story:

On March 23, 1994 the medical examiner viewed the body of Ronald Opus and concluded that he died from a shotgun wound to the head.

Mr. Opus had jumped from the top of a 10-story building intending to commit suicide.
He left a note to the effect indicating his despondency.

As he fell past the ninth floor, his life was interrupted by a shotgun blast passing through a window, which killed him instantly.

Neither the shooter nor the deceased was aware that a safety net had been installed just below the eighth floor level to protect some building workers and that Ronald Opus would not have been able to complete his suicide the way he had planned.

The room on the ninth floor, where the shotgun blast emanated, was occupied by an elderly man and his wife.

They were arguing vigorously and he was threatening her with a shotgun!

The man was so upset that when he pulled the trigger, he completely missed his wife and the pellets went through the window, striking Mr. Opus.

When one intends to kill subject 'A' but kills subject 'B' in the attempt, one is guilty of the murder of subject 'B.'

When confronted with the murder charge, the old man and his wife were both adamant, and both said that they thought the shotgun was not loaded.

The old man said it was a long- standing habit to threaten his wife with the unloaded shotgun.

He had no intention to murder her.
Therefore, the killing of Mr. Opus appeared to be an accident; that is, assuming the gun had been accidentally loaded.

The continuing investigation turned up a witness who saw the old couple's son loading the shotgun about 6 weeks prior to the fatal accident.

It transpired that the old lady had cut off her son's financial support and the son, knowing the propensity of his father to use the shotgun threateningly, loaded the gun with the expectation that his father would shoot his mother.

Since the loader of the gun was aware of this, he was guilty of the murder even though he didn't actually pull the trigger.

The case now becomes one of murder on the part of the son for the death of Ronald Opus.

Now for the exquisite twist...

Further investigation revealed that the son was, in fact, Ronald Opus.

He had become increasingly despondent over the failure of his attempt to engineer his mother's murder.

This led him to jump off the 10 story building on March 23rd, only to be killed by a shotgun blast passing through the ninth story window.

The son, Ronald Opus, had actually murdered himself.

So the medical examiner closed the case as a suicide.

A true story from Associated Press.

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Thursday, 7 April 2016

[HM:258395] Stop Calling Me An Introvert. I Prefer "Power Thinker".

Stop Calling Me An Introvert. I Prefer "Power Thinker".

I'm getting sick of the term "introvert".

It sounds like someone with a problem. Like someone who is anti-social. In contrast, an "extrovert" sounds outgoing and engaging. Like the CEO or student body president.

Yes, some of us are pretty quiet in classrooms, dinner parties and corporate functions. Yes, we do find parties tiring after an hour or two. And yes, we usually let the phone ring through to voicemail (it's distracting).

But none of this is because we are anti-social (in fact, one-on-one we are pretty chatty). It's mostly because noise and crowds prevent us from doing what we do best, which is deep thinking.

Most introverts I know are basically full-time thinkers. They are doing it basically all the time. And we do deep thinking better than other people. That will sound arrogant to the extroverts, who will say "Well, we can do deep thinking too".

My answer is "No, you can't. Not like us."

The difference, as I see it is, is this:

  • Extroverts like to go to conferences, parties and corporate retreats - and they get charged up at them. In contrast, we get exhausted by noise and people. So naturally, extroverts are better at people-based activities, like leading big organizations.
  • But introverts get similarly charged up when we can find a quiet place to focus on a problem. Put an extrovert alone in an office for a week and he/she will get tired and lonely. In contrast, we will get charged up and focused. So naturally, we're better at it thinking-based activities, like research and writing.

So enough with the term "introvert". How did we get labeled by the negative side of our habits anyways? Extroverts aren't routinely called "annoying over-talkers".

From now on, I'm going with "power thinker". That's a better description.

"Extrovert" and "power thinker" are both good terms. They are both positive and aspirational - something one can strive for in life. The extroverts can aspire to become Jack Welch and Steve Jobs. We power thinkers can look up to Warren Buffett and Bill Gates. Certainly, nobody has every dreamed of becoming an  introvert.

That's a bit of ranting and generalizing. Here are some examples from my own life:

  • I have a friend Amy who is an uber-extrovert. She is unbelievable. She probably meets 20-30 new people per day. In the office. At meetings. On the street. In Starbucks. She will go into a cocktail meet-and-greet and know everyone in about an hour. And not just hellos and handing business cards. She will get to know them and keep in touch. It's amazing to watch, like I am watching some other species than myself.
  • However, I notice I do similarly extreme stuff that she probably views as equally bizarre. For example, I will get working on a problem and then forget to eat. Not just a meal, but often for the whole day. And back in graduate school, I would frequently forget to eat for 2-3 days at a time (usually dropping from 140lb down to 120lbs during finals). But, far from being tired, I would become more and more charged up as the days went by. In fact, there was almost a euphoric feeling. Amy probably sees me as quite bizarre.
  • Another example. I have one particularly brainy friend who seems to balance being very analytical with also being a great executive at a large (and famous) internet company. She seems to be an ambivert, able to operate in both ways. I find myself both in awe of her ability to do this but also cringe at the thought of having to be in such a corporate environment myself. The term "team building exercise" literally makes me shudder.
  • But I think I have habits that would make even an ambivert cringe. For example, I find myself looking forward to taking 2 week trips for thinking and writing books. I find a beach house and then write 12-14 hours per day. And I will feel more and more energetic as the week goes on. I also find my thinking gets better and better. I suspect my ambivert friend would hate the idea of doing something like this.

Anyways, I'm going with "power thinker" from now on. It's positive and a bit cocky (kind of like extrovert).

It seems logical to me that some people are just more hard-wired for a life of contemplation. Looking back, all I've ever wanted to do with my life is sit in a bar and do math problems. But nobody (yet) has been willing to pay me to do this. If you know of someone, please send them my way.

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